The excessive use of ‘favouritism’ – mere fun or outdated?

If you’re like me, you use the adjective ‘favourite’ a hell of a lot and I’ve come to thinking recently that it feels overused and I find myself wondering why we feel the need for such a context (especially from a media perspective which is what i’m basing this off of) to exist? I like games, music, movies and TV shows along with their electronic counterparts but, merely enjoying these mediums doesn’t seem to feel enough in the modern day.

Simply click onto YouTube and you will most likely stumble upon a ‘top ten’ or whatever subsequent number list of whatever topic the person in the video is talking about. This was a big seller for video game-based YouTubers a few years ago and some still do them today but, definitely less regularly as most did not want that to be their only output or attachment. The most famous YouTube page for top ten videos has to be WatchMojo. The American firm has managed to get millions of views on videos looking at all kinds of media platforms that advertise to all walks of life. They look at genres of film and anime, death scenes, decade eras, consoles, spoilers, end scenes and a lot of other themes that revolve around games and film.

Creating said top ten video may prove to be influential or open discussions between people about what they thought of the list and bring forth their opinions as well. The only issue with this is that most of the time the viewership will not agree with the video and each other in the comments. This is good as we are all entitled to our opinions but in that thinking that is what damages the idea of favourites, best ofs and top tens… HOW CAN THERE BE ONE SUCH GREAT THING? Sticking ‘personal’ in front or use of personal pronouns expectedly improves the situation but even than it is not without conflict.

At this point in the webisphere, top ten videos feel outdated and even more so their influence was metaphorically shoved down our throats by the internet ‘news source’ Buzzfeed. The company’s consistent selling point was these lists and their output led to other news outlets doing the same, most notably the free newspaper Metro on their website. This posting was a major influence in the term ‘clickbait’ where companies would create ‘relatable’ content to readers so they would click onto their website and increase their web traffic and the climb up through the Google search engine. Doing these lists has enabled them to shovel out the same stuff with perhaps one update each year and people have forotten about them thus ending back on them. It is all very tiring and I of course are guilty for trawling through these posts to find out how relatable they are…perhaps they were good in the sense of answering our questions of how relatable we were with other people.

The main premise of this article is…can’t we just enjoy things?  Comparing and rating is definitely one of the forefronts of our conversations and I’m very guilty of that. To say you like a certain album or game than another by the artist or in its series somehow defines you as a person. You’re one of ‘them’ kinds of people. If I can draw a comparison from my own interests, a band I really like, Weezer are most notably recognised for their first two albums ‘Weezer (The Blue Album)’ and ‘Pinkerton’ being their best work and so fans argue which is better. I like the latter better and due to its darker undertones that changes who I am as a person to some people, but we like things for our own reasoning and that’s how it should be. Perhaps I’m getting too invested in this matter but like a major factor in my life is console wars which definitely ruin how we enjoy video games.

I’m a console collector and have played and most home consoles since the Nintendo Entertainment System (NES) and I enjoy games from all of them. In this day and age where first party titles are better and different on the current consoles of the three big companies: Sony, Microsoft and Nintendo, you start thinking: “well this must be popular because A and B however this console also has good components from B yet the final console has great features which neither match what A and B are saying…comprende?”

When referencing console wars, going back to the early 90’s where the feud between the Super Nintendo Entertainment System (SNES) and the Sega MegaDrive/Genisis divided many people as both were great consoles with great games that featured personally or on both machines. Those which featured on both machines like Disney Capcom title Aladdin would strike even bigger debates about different concepts of video games such as gameplay, fame rate, look and audio. There just had to be one better than the other which I guess is fair because that’s how games work, but the superior in gaming terminology may not be someone’s favourite due to personal experience and someone could argue to them asking why the superior isn’t their favourite for A and B reasoning again.

Perhaps I am being cynical and too radical to this idea and that it is good for us to enjoy things and rating said categories merely expands our minds. Being able to develop an assumption for ourselves that we think a certain item deserves a higher ranking personalises who were are and brings forth these important discussions. Having discussions is what furthers our development. It may sound a little philosophical, yet if we discuss in a civilised manner and not shit all over each others ideas and favourites then we might enjoy favouriting things more. I believe it is even more enjoyable if we keep an open mind and hear someone’s reasoning for their placing of whatever it is that they are talking about. At the same time calling something ‘favourite’ one day does not define it as such seeing as opinions can change constantly so we shouldn’t hang too heavy over what someone describes as their favourite too much.

What are your opinions?

Do we try and favourite things too much or is it good to favourite the things we enjoy and love?


 

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